One financial habit that I’ve found helpful, especially for married couples, is setting aside time for a weekly money meeting. Instead of letting financial conversations pop up randomly throughout the week (which can feel overwhelming or even spark conflict), we keep a running list of money-related questions, ideas, or decisions we need to discuss. Then, we go over them all at once during our scheduled weekly meeting.
It’s a simple rhythm that makes a big difference.
The meeting doesn’t have to be long or formal. Sometimes it’s ten minutes, sometimes longer—just enough time to review what’s come up and check in on where we are. We typically look over our budget, see how we’re tracking with our goals, and make any necessary adjustments together. This small habit keeps us aligned without feeling like we’re always “talking about money.”
At the end of each month, we also set aside time to build the next month’s budget together. It’s a collaborative process: we reflect on how the past month went, what’s coming up, and how we want to direct our money. But the weekly meetings are what keep everything running smoothly in between those planning sessions.
Why does this matter so much?
Because money—left unchecked—can easily become a source of tension in a relationship. But when you commit to a regular time to communicate and make decisions as a team, you replace tension with teamwork. You create space for clarity, shared goals, and healthy habits.
If you’re married and feeling the financial strain or confusion that comes from miscommunication, I highly recommend starting with this one simple habit: a weekly money meeting. It’s a game-changer for your finances—and your relationship.
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